things arent going easy. my gf's in coma.

[itsAndrew]

dramatic happenings..

as a few of you know, i went on holidays for two weeks in australia for some weeks ago. i went with my uncle, brother and my girlfriend sheila. (sheila lives in dublin so we don't see eachother that often) i made her pregnant. she told me over the phone. she freaked out.. i got a phone from her parents this afternoon that she had tried to kill herself.. she's now in coma at the hopital in dublin. and my days aren't going well. im going to dublin if a few days to see her and to be there if she ever wakes up.

i love sheila. she means the world to me.. and i dunno what to do without her.

there's so many details, but i thought i'd make it simple, my eyes are so wet of tears so ill end it here.

i love you all and i hope youll understand how i feel. i appreciate any comment and messages.

[Irwin Sparkes rock!]

:( oh no. :( Couldn't if she really didn't want it (not that I'm trying to sound evil or anything) get an abortion?

[sreisooh321]

Oh dear. :(
I hope things get better soon for you both!

[thetricktolife]

I hope she gets better soon
Im sure its a lot for you to deal with too
so if you want us not to mention it too much then thats fine
but if you need to talk we're all here

[Georgiee]

I'm really sorry to hear that..
I hope she'll get better soon and that things will work out and stuff.
No one deserves to have a situation like this. Always here if you ever want to talk.

[MrsBonzo]

Ah shes in a coma now too!?
when did that happen? :shocked:
Aw, just try SMILE :D
Just remember the worse of if that helps
and have a good time
She is a bit mad to want to kill herself
but then ... who knows.
Hope all goes well :D xxxx
Lots of love! and hugs :D :hug:

[Delmea0203]

I'm really sorry, you don't deserve this situation.
Hope she'll get better in few days...
If you need to talk:wave:
:hug:

[laurence]

Oh my god!! It's so hard!! I really hope it will be OK there!! You seem to be so responsible and aware of your situation!!...To go there it's the best way to reassure her and show her your love!! :hug: Courage!!!!

[bexsta8]

Omg, I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope everything goes well for you two and that she gets better soon :)

[Samia]

I'm sorry to hear that :(
I hope she will get better very soon, i can understand how much it's hard for you being in that situation.
:hug: :hug:

[theHoOSiERs-x]

Awww you really dont deserve all that hope all gets better :thumb:

[irwinisthebombyey]

wow, it doesn't sound like you are having such an amazing time but try and stay happy! i hope she gets better and you sort everything out.

[Livvy]

I really know (kinda) what your going through. Recently, my best friend tried to kill herself and it was one of the hardest times in my life.Even though she got 'better' she actually died a few weeks ago of a heart attack so I hope you dont have to go through that pain even though it must be painful now.

I'm so sorry to hear about your girlfriend, I hope she and your baby turn out OK and I hope you and her get things sorted out.
:hug: (a hoosier hug :) )
xx

[irwinisthebombyey]

i know what its like to always be worrying if someone is going to life or die that is very close to you, and its really hard but you've just got to try to focus on the good things in life and try to talk about it. it helps.

[miawallace]

Hey Andrew-forgive me for not introducing myself earlier.
I was away visiting friends and family for ten days.
I really am very, very sorry to hear about your girlfriend.
I think it's one of those situations where by no matter what anybody says, it won't be the right thing, but if your girlfriend makes a full recovery (and I really hope she does), at least she will get all the help she needs.
I actually live in the North of Ireland (Co. Tyrone), though I am originally from St. Albans in Hertfordshire, and I know how tough it is having to run back and fourth between the two places.
I myself have suffered depression for the last 15 years or so, since I was about 15, and did hit a really bad patch about 10 years ago, where I thought about doing really terrible things to myself too.
At least your girlfriend is very lucky to have you and her family around, who love her very much, which is one of the reasons I couldn't cope.
I felt like I had no-one around, so at least she's not in that position.
I have also lost a couple of people to suicide, so I sort of know what you are going through, and if you ever want to chat, I'm usually about, or send me an email at seanherron@btinternet.com
I honestly hope things work out for the best for you both, and I'm a great believer in fate-all things happen for a reason, and even if it doesn't feel like it at the time, someone up there does watch over us, I promise you.
Good luck, and we're all here on the forum to help you.
xxx

[itsAndrew]

thanks for all the replies everyone.

unfortunately, sheila hasn't gotten any better. she's still weak. and the doctor honestly said that he didnt know if she will make it.. right now, im in dublin, currently staying at her parents house.

ill update as i know else.


Hey Andrew-forgive me for not introducing myself earlier.
I was away visiting friends and family for ten days.
I really am very, very sorry to hear about your girlfriend.
I think it's one of those situations where by no matter what anybody says, it won't be the right thing, but if your girlfriend makes a full recovery (and I really hope she does), at least she will get all the help she needs.
I actually live in the North of Ireland (Co. Tyrone), though I am originally from St. Albans in Hertfordshire, and I know how tough it is having to run back and fourth between the two places.
I myself have suffered depression for the last 15 years or so, since I was about 15, and did hit a really bad patch about 10 years ago, where I thought about doing really terrible things to myself too.
At least your girlfriend is very lucky to have you and her family around, who love her very much, which is one of the reasons I couldn't cope.
I felt like I had no-one around, so at least she's not in that position.
I have also lost a couple of people to suicide, so I sort of know what you are going through, and if you ever want to chat, I'm usually about, or send me an email at seanherron@btinternet.com
I honestly hope things work out for the best for you both, and I'm a great believer in fate-all things happen for a reason, and even if it doesn't feel like it at the time, someone up there does watch over us, I promise you.
Good luck, and we're all here on the forum to help you.
xxx

thank you so much for taking your time to write all this. and btw, im an atheist, so i dont belive in god and i belive that there is no heaven. i appreciate your comment much. thanks.

[Irwin Sparkes rock!]

I believe the same so I can't even think at least they've gone to heaven which is one of teh reasons I'm afraid of dying. But i really hope se's OK :hug:

[Delmea0203]

:dito:

I've got the same opinion as you.

I really hope she'll get better soon.
:hug:

[irwinisthebombyey]

i don't believe in heaven or God either but i do believe in fate. everyone had got to go at some point, it is part of life but i really hope she gets better.